As to the matter of entertaining which is something that you shouldn't give up unless your bank account is really alarming.
You don't need to entertain expensively. It doesn't even need to be a lot of work. But entertaining is important. Both the parties you give and go to are stimulating and boost the moral.
Being embarrassed by having the entertain simply is a silly form of snobbery and in these days when simpler meal are smart and a amusing party is far more of an achievement than an extravagant one.
Real hospitality and carefully combined guests are the most important part of any party.
One of the first rules is not to attempt more that you can manage. In these times when money is tight necessity had invented all sorts of ways of entertaining on a shoestring, without the need for 9 course dinners!
Keeping it simple but fun with good food and friends is all you need:
- Sunday lunch - made simple - baked ham, potato salad, with cherries or strawberries for desert.
- a late supper post movie - sandwiches laid out on the coffee table made with a variety of breads and fillings so that people can make their own combinations, bottles of beer or ginger ale.
Sunday brunch is always a great way to entertain especially in the summer when you can get outside - bloody mary's or lots of fresh juice, huge bowls of berries, yogurt, toast some muffins with a selection of marmalade's and jams - wack on the barbie and cook sausages and bacon.
The setting can do a lot for the party and that isn't a matter of cost. A table set in a sunny window or on terrace with a view or under an apple tree can make the simplest china look enchanting.
Hunt out car boot fairs, charity shops or flea markets for individual pieces of china and linen, mix with cheap white china from high street stores - effective but stylish.
Buffet suppers are a triumphant solution to no maid no money solution. One advantage is that everything or nearly everything can be made in advance. The best buffet suppers are planned that everyone can sit down in small groups with a small table to avoid the necessity of balancing plate, glass and fork.
A smart way to do it if you have no dining room is to sit your guest on sofa's and occasional chairs with a number of side tables and each table laid as for a formal dinner. Or serve coffee after dinner in a beautiful coffee pot - you can pick ones up all over the place.
Throw a tea party with china teapot and teacups - simple sandwiches and shop bought cakes. For cocktails - mix jugs of spirit with lots of juice, serve olives. nuts and little nibbles that can be bought really cheaply - £ shops have lots of olives and nuts, or make really simple canapes - cheese biscuits with cream cheese or bean puree - there are lots of quick ideas in books that you can borrow from the library.
In summary - keep it simple, use good ingredients, and some imagination to entertain with style.
Vintage Glamour with a fashion twist!!
Tuesday, 22 March 2011
Friday, 18 March 2011
Orchids on your Budget - You have to Eat
There a lot of things you can do when economizing - food isn't one of them!
If you come to a stretch when you have to get all the meals yourself (in 1937 many households had at least two staff), get them as inexpensively as possible and do it with air and no-one will ever know you are cutting back.
Nothing can duller than uninteresting food on the table and beans on toast and all though lovely does get tiresome after a while. But there is a vogue for simple yet interesting (in 1937 and again now) - anything served with chic, can seem like some thing copied from the smartest house. It can also served unattractively seem like poor pickings.
The trick is to have a little knowledge about food and service, to put imagination into your meals and to organise the time you spend on them. If you haven't got the first head to the smartest magazines and books (all available to borrow at the library), and spend some time reading and getting ideas from them. When you got out shopping spend 15 minutes in the linen, china and glass department of the stores you visit to see how they display things and what ideas you can borrow.
See where you can find simple pieces of white inexpensive china - add vintage glasses or plates, find unusual napkins or buy remnants of fabric - sew the edges or fray them if sewing is too much for you. Flowers and leaves from the garden or small bulbs in pots look lovely on a spring table. These are minor extravagances, small orchids on you budget and the type of thing you need as stimulus to keep up enthusiasm seven days a week which isn't easy but can be done.
One obvious bit of advice is go to market - the farmer's market or foreign store - don't be too set about taking a list - see what's available, browse around and buy in season. Look out for interesting spices and sauces that can make food something a little different.
Keep a well stocked larder of essentials that can be whipped up into a meal in a few moments.
Learning to make a few signature dishes that you do well, will soon get you a reputation as a great cook.
A simple but stylish dish - a curry made from a lesser cut of meat, cooked slowly in spices, add a heaped bowl of rice in a lovely vintage dish and served with some or all of the following condiments - chopped onions, tomatoes, boiled eggs (white and yolk separate), green peppers, grated coconut, fried onion and mango chutney - serve these in a mixture of vintage dishes and plates and it makes the most basic meal feel chic.
If dress the table and use your best china and table linen for everyday simple meals it makes it all seem a lot less as though you are economizing and dinner time a little more chic.
If you come to a stretch when you have to get all the meals yourself (in 1937 many households had at least two staff), get them as inexpensively as possible and do it with air and no-one will ever know you are cutting back.
Nothing can duller than uninteresting food on the table and beans on toast and all though lovely does get tiresome after a while. But there is a vogue for simple yet interesting (in 1937 and again now) - anything served with chic, can seem like some thing copied from the smartest house. It can also served unattractively seem like poor pickings.
The trick is to have a little knowledge about food and service, to put imagination into your meals and to organise the time you spend on them. If you haven't got the first head to the smartest magazines and books (all available to borrow at the library), and spend some time reading and getting ideas from them. When you got out shopping spend 15 minutes in the linen, china and glass department of the stores you visit to see how they display things and what ideas you can borrow.
See where you can find simple pieces of white inexpensive china - add vintage glasses or plates, find unusual napkins or buy remnants of fabric - sew the edges or fray them if sewing is too much for you. Flowers and leaves from the garden or small bulbs in pots look lovely on a spring table. These are minor extravagances, small orchids on you budget and the type of thing you need as stimulus to keep up enthusiasm seven days a week which isn't easy but can be done.
One obvious bit of advice is go to market - the farmer's market or foreign store - don't be too set about taking a list - see what's available, browse around and buy in season. Look out for interesting spices and sauces that can make food something a little different.
Keep a well stocked larder of essentials that can be whipped up into a meal in a few moments.
Learning to make a few signature dishes that you do well, will soon get you a reputation as a great cook.
A simple but stylish dish - a curry made from a lesser cut of meat, cooked slowly in spices, add a heaped bowl of rice in a lovely vintage dish and served with some or all of the following condiments - chopped onions, tomatoes, boiled eggs (white and yolk separate), green peppers, grated coconut, fried onion and mango chutney - serve these in a mixture of vintage dishes and plates and it makes the most basic meal feel chic.
If dress the table and use your best china and table linen for everyday simple meals it makes it all seem a lot less as though you are economizing and dinner time a little more chic.
Wednesday, 9 March 2011
Orchids on Your Budget - Things you can't afford to do!!?
Economizing is painful if you keep applying it in the wrong places - you have to be careful where you pinch.
First and foremost in this is "letting yourself go". The women who feel she can't afford to keep herself as young, handsome and chic as humanely possible or she will do it when her finances are in better shape eventually finds that she has made a miscalculation that runs into money. The result plays havoc with husbands, jobs and her opinion of herself. Lean periods as at all times a women needs to be as seductive as possible as since it is only normal for a man to look around for an excuse for his difficulties and a slovenly wife is as good excuse as any other. (Not very women's lib but if you look fabulous you feel better about yourself and he's not going to want a younger model). The kind of women who gets up any old how and slops around the house deserves all she gets - harsh words from 1937 but making an effort around the house always seems a very glamorous thing to do - even Primark do cute little 40's style pj's and silky dressing gowns so there really is no excuse? (and trust me your man will love it and you will probably make the postman's year!!!)
The beauty problem may present more difficulties but with a little planning and system you can still give nature a helping hand - do your own nails in front of the TV, give yourself a facial, or sign up for the local college or salon that advertises for models (Check that they are always under supervision)
Economize on things that you can - toothpaste, body lotion and scrubs, they may have a more elegant smell but they do the same job. A good foundation - less spent on mascara, eyeshadow and lipstick.
Another extravagance is letting your house run to ruin because you think you are cutting back by not doing the jobs that need to be done - it takes a lot of minor repairs to total major ones that result from years of neglect. Getting things replaced or repaired at the first sign of wear before it completely breaks down and costs a lot more to replace.
Cleverly built shelves, minor DIY jobs, a change of paint, a lovely lighting fixture picked up at auction, pretty vintage china or an inexpensive rug to cut out a draft - there are 100 ways to stop you house from being dated and drab and the result is not merely more fun to live in, it may even mean a better price should you need to sell.
It all sums up to the fact that economy should be as nearly invisible as possible. The thing is you can't afford is letting economy stand out like an ugly patch on the wall. With planning and a little ffort no-one need know that your are cutting back at all.
First and foremost in this is "letting yourself go". The women who feel she can't afford to keep herself as young, handsome and chic as humanely possible or she will do it when her finances are in better shape eventually finds that she has made a miscalculation that runs into money. The result plays havoc with husbands, jobs and her opinion of herself. Lean periods as at all times a women needs to be as seductive as possible as since it is only normal for a man to look around for an excuse for his difficulties and a slovenly wife is as good excuse as any other. (Not very women's lib but if you look fabulous you feel better about yourself and he's not going to want a younger model). The kind of women who gets up any old how and slops around the house deserves all she gets - harsh words from 1937 but making an effort around the house always seems a very glamorous thing to do - even Primark do cute little 40's style pj's and silky dressing gowns so there really is no excuse? (and trust me your man will love it and you will probably make the postman's year!!!)
The beauty problem may present more difficulties but with a little planning and system you can still give nature a helping hand - do your own nails in front of the TV, give yourself a facial, or sign up for the local college or salon that advertises for models (Check that they are always under supervision)
Economize on things that you can - toothpaste, body lotion and scrubs, they may have a more elegant smell but they do the same job. A good foundation - less spent on mascara, eyeshadow and lipstick.
Another extravagance is letting your house run to ruin because you think you are cutting back by not doing the jobs that need to be done - it takes a lot of minor repairs to total major ones that result from years of neglect. Getting things replaced or repaired at the first sign of wear before it completely breaks down and costs a lot more to replace.
Cleverly built shelves, minor DIY jobs, a change of paint, a lovely lighting fixture picked up at auction, pretty vintage china or an inexpensive rug to cut out a draft - there are 100 ways to stop you house from being dated and drab and the result is not merely more fun to live in, it may even mean a better price should you need to sell.
It all sums up to the fact that economy should be as nearly invisible as possible. The thing is you can't afford is letting economy stand out like an ugly patch on the wall. With planning and a little ffort no-one need know that your are cutting back at all.
Wednesday, 2 March 2011
Orchids on Your Budget - Dress Sense
Practically every women believes in her heart that she cold look a million dollars if she had a million dollars to buy the latest designer label. The truth is that the women that do a look a million dollars often do it on very little money. ( You only have to look at some of the celebrity disasters to know that money does not buy style!!)
It does take time but isn't it worth spending a little time and energy after all you don't get anything for nothing.
Fashion sense is a gift to a chosen few but anyone can learn what suits them and how to build a wardrobe of clothes that works for every occasion. Basic rules for smart dressing on a budget are pretty much the same as they were in 1937 - the styles may have changed but the guidelines remain the same.
The main one about build a wardrobe around one or two colours at the most for instance, how many times have you bought something that doesn't go with anything else you have? Not good budgeting!
Buy your your staples in neutrals - black, brown, or navy (camel or cream in summer - this will also go with other neutrals). Once you have your basics in neutrals make shore that your shoes and bag match these, it may sound monotonous but it is the greatest style economy when it comes to clothes.
With this plan everything goes with everything else. Besides there are still blouse, tops, jackets, scarves, belts and other accessories to bring brightness to your wardrobe.
Another rule is never buy clothes that are defiantly one-purpose dressing or even one season trend led items. Its all very well if you have enough money to replace your wardrobe each season but as most of us cannot it is a better investment to buy simple elegant styles that are timeless and you don't tire of in 5 minutes. Day dresses that have classic lines will take you to work. lunch with the girls and out to dinner. This may sound all unexciting but as a matter of fact you can be just as chic in an outfit that doesn't tell where you are going as in one that does - a little mystery never hurt anyone!!
As for the list of clothes this is the original from the 1937 book - the principals are the same now as then, keep your basis in the same neutrals so they mix and match then add some "whimsical" fashion item for each season. Make a list like this for Spring/Summer and Autumn/Winter and you will always look chic and no-one will ever know that you are working to a tight budget!
1937
As for evening wear - the LBD is the elegant standby and can be worn in so many ways that you will never tire of it and with a little imagination no-one will realise that it is the same frock time and time again. It can be varied by contrasting jackets, jewels, flowers, scarves and shoes until it dies on its feet - one example taken from the book is the following:
A business women who can't spend much on her evening wear but has to entertain for work with a smart set - her solution is one beautifully cut evening dress and several changes of accessories. The dress is the backdrop for:
So with some thought and a little creativity you can look elegant and chic on a budget - think of the French they do it very well with a limited wardrobe but fabulous accessories and most of all keeping it simple and classic.
It does take time but isn't it worth spending a little time and energy after all you don't get anything for nothing.
Fashion sense is a gift to a chosen few but anyone can learn what suits them and how to build a wardrobe of clothes that works for every occasion. Basic rules for smart dressing on a budget are pretty much the same as they were in 1937 - the styles may have changed but the guidelines remain the same.
The main one about build a wardrobe around one or two colours at the most for instance, how many times have you bought something that doesn't go with anything else you have? Not good budgeting!
Buy your your staples in neutrals - black, brown, or navy (camel or cream in summer - this will also go with other neutrals). Once you have your basics in neutrals make shore that your shoes and bag match these, it may sound monotonous but it is the greatest style economy when it comes to clothes.
With this plan everything goes with everything else. Besides there are still blouse, tops, jackets, scarves, belts and other accessories to bring brightness to your wardrobe.
Another rule is never buy clothes that are defiantly one-purpose dressing or even one season trend led items. Its all very well if you have enough money to replace your wardrobe each season but as most of us cannot it is a better investment to buy simple elegant styles that are timeless and you don't tire of in 5 minutes. Day dresses that have classic lines will take you to work. lunch with the girls and out to dinner. This may sound all unexciting but as a matter of fact you can be just as chic in an outfit that doesn't tell where you are going as in one that does - a little mystery never hurt anyone!!
As for the list of clothes this is the original from the 1937 book - the principals are the same now as then, keep your basis in the same neutrals so they mix and match then add some "whimsical" fashion item for each season. Make a list like this for Spring/Summer and Autumn/Winter and you will always look chic and no-one will ever know that you are working to a tight budget!
1937
- Toast brown wool coat untrimmed. Simple well cut, warm enough to wear through Autumn and a good style to wear with separate furs?!
- Black wool dress (with brown buttons to go under coat)
- Short toast brown wool jacket (lightweight to wear over dress or separate skirt)
- Check brown and black skirt
- Printed silk dress (with brown and white design to be worn with jacket or coat)
- Toast brown hat, bag and shoes
- Lighter brown stockings and gloves
- White gloves, bag and accessories and jacket (warm weather to go with print dress)
As for evening wear - the LBD is the elegant standby and can be worn in so many ways that you will never tire of it and with a little imagination no-one will realise that it is the same frock time and time again. It can be varied by contrasting jackets, jewels, flowers, scarves and shoes until it dies on its feet - one example taken from the book is the following:
A business women who can't spend much on her evening wear but has to entertain for work with a smart set - her solution is one beautifully cut evening dress and several changes of accessories. The dress is the backdrop for:
- An emerald green taffeta jacket and slippers
- Two ruby clips and bracelet to match worn with black slippers and bag
- Pink chiffon roses and pink chiffon scarf worn with black slippers and bag
- A gold lame jacket and gold bag with black slippers
So with some thought and a little creativity you can look elegant and chic on a budget - think of the French they do it very well with a limited wardrobe but fabulous accessories and most of all keeping it simple and classic.
Tuesday, 22 February 2011
The First Orchids on Your Budget
This is the first of the blogs taken from Orchids on Your Budget - some of it is taken direct from the book, and some my modern additions. The next couple of blogs will include Dress Sense, Entertaining and Home as well as Things that you should always do any way!!!
Here is the introduction.
It isn't the size of your income or lack of it because whatever your income is you it is never enough for the life you would like to live!!
All of us have to budget whether it means giving up the Jimmy Choos (letting the maid go - we are talking 1937) or not having butter on your bread.
Enough money for what? A house like the Jones's, shoes to rival Imelda Marcos or a trip to the Far East?
We would all like to have them but you don't HAVE them - you will feel no better with a bigger house, more clothes or whatever you think you have to have.
What most of us don't concede is that with a little planning and a dash of ingenuity you might have what you want. Conditions have never been so favourable for those of us who are not millionaires but still want orchids, a wardrobe full of clothes or fabulous parties or attractive apartments and houses.
Don't economize "grubbily", nobody cares or needs to know what your income is - do it with style and subtly so that no-one even notices.
Even dull people can live smartly if they have plenty of money and more often it makes them duller. A slight financial pressure sharpens the wits. It takes an interesting person to have an attractive menage on a shoestring and run it with gaiety and charm.
The trick is to have the right attitude. Most people rundown instead of cutting down not interesting people. They grasp the obvious facts and conquer it with as much zest as possible. Given the right point of view you can have enough fun and make the best of life.
Firstly, do not go around complaining about your lot in life. Whatever your lot in life, it's just a challenge to your resourcefulness with which you work
Here is the introduction.
It isn't the size of your income or lack of it because whatever your income is you it is never enough for the life you would like to live!!
All of us have to budget whether it means giving up the Jimmy Choos (letting the maid go - we are talking 1937) or not having butter on your bread.
Enough money for what? A house like the Jones's, shoes to rival Imelda Marcos or a trip to the Far East?
We would all like to have them but you don't HAVE them - you will feel no better with a bigger house, more clothes or whatever you think you have to have.
What most of us don't concede is that with a little planning and a dash of ingenuity you might have what you want. Conditions have never been so favourable for those of us who are not millionaires but still want orchids, a wardrobe full of clothes or fabulous parties or attractive apartments and houses.
Don't economize "grubbily", nobody cares or needs to know what your income is - do it with style and subtly so that no-one even notices.
Even dull people can live smartly if they have plenty of money and more often it makes them duller. A slight financial pressure sharpens the wits. It takes an interesting person to have an attractive menage on a shoestring and run it with gaiety and charm.
The trick is to have the right attitude. Most people rundown instead of cutting down not interesting people. They grasp the obvious facts and conquer it with as much zest as possible. Given the right point of view you can have enough fun and make the best of life.
Firstly, do not go around complaining about your lot in life. Whatever your lot in life, it's just a challenge to your resourcefulness with which you work
Saturday, 19 February 2011
New Year Resolution Broken
I know that I said that I was going to do my blog more regularly and have not kept to that - in my defense it has not been a great start to 2011 for us.
To begin my mother has been quiet poorly and then last weekend we had to put our beloved Gemma to sleep - our naughty cat as mentioned on this blog. She has been part of the family for 17 years and the house is not the same without her and I have not been able to think straight and so upset.
Though rest assured I will get back to blogging on a more regular basis and now I have a new toy - my net-book so I can write wherever I am.
More on Orchids on a Budget coming very soon and much much more.
To begin my mother has been quiet poorly and then last weekend we had to put our beloved Gemma to sleep - our naughty cat as mentioned on this blog. She has been part of the family for 17 years and the house is not the same without her and I have not been able to think straight and so upset.
Though rest assured I will get back to blogging on a more regular basis and now I have a new toy - my net-book so I can write wherever I am.
More on Orchids on a Budget coming very soon and much much more.
Wednesday, 12 January 2011
New Year's Resolution
I resolve to be more frequent with my blog this year and go back to the original idea that I had of living as glamorous life as possible.
I bought a lovely book a little while ago and have re-read again over Christmas, it was originally written in 1937 during The Depression and I thought that in this doom and gloom when everyone is having a bit of a credit crunch it would be fabulous to take some of the ideas and adapt them to now although many of them still ring true in the modern times.
So over the next few weeks I will be attempting to give ways to bring a little glamour into to your life without making a huge dent in the bank balance?!!!
I bought a lovely book a little while ago and have re-read again over Christmas, it was originally written in 1937 during The Depression and I thought that in this doom and gloom when everyone is having a bit of a credit crunch it would be fabulous to take some of the ideas and adapt them to now although many of them still ring true in the modern times.
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